Carol Van Ahlers

We can’t underestimate the impact that losing a pet has on a family, especially on a child who has known that pet as a part of the family his or her entire life. Helping a child grieve when a pet dies can be a challenging and sensitive process. It is a fine line to walk […]

At some time point in time most of us have welcomed a pet into our lives. Whether it was a dog, a cat, an iguana, a canary or a hamster, the bond we make with our non-human friends can be deep. Then comes the time we need to say goodbye, because most pets, outside of

Something about spring simply lifts the spirit. Although these past few days have been cold and cloudy, mixed with a bit of rain, the prospect that spring is here is joyful. The crystal blue sky, crisp breezes, green landscapes created by a year filled with rain create a feeling of exuberance drawn by hands of

March being Women’s History Month is not nearly enough recognition for the role that women play in the world. From homes to businesses, there is no debate on the value and impact that women have on our everyday lives and the future of society. For now, let’s focus on the  business world, as Hilgenfeld Mortuary

“I’ve come to believe that each of us has a personal calling that’s as unique as a fingerprint – and that the best way to succeed is to discover what you love and then find a way to offer it to others in the form of service, working hard, and also allowing the energy of

Most likely at some point in your life you have had the blues. It’s the feeling that things aren’t quite right. You’re tired, a bit cranky, unsettled, sad, stressed, or worried. There may or may not be a specific reason that you can identify, but you can’t shake it off. The blues are real and

 For me, a week full of rain always brings to mind that iconic Carpenter’s song Rainy Days and Mondays. I can feel myself start to hum the tune when the grey skies linger. Lyrics, that have found a place in the deep storage crevices of my mind, are brought forth by the persistent raindrops, whether

Mary Oliver is one of the best loved and well-known American poets. She passed away at the age of 83 in 2019 leaving a legacy of poems that explore the interconnectedness of life, nature and the inevitability of loss. She has several poems that touch on themes of grief and loss and the natural cycles

For me, moving from one year to another always brings with it a sense of optimism. I set about following resolutions I’ve made with the goal of improving myself and my life. Looking forward, leaving the past behind, always seems to feel good. This year, I’m trying something different. Rather than focusing on what’s ahead,

In an article earlier this year published in the Well Section of the New York Times, author Jancee Dunn focuses on the challenge of knowing what to do when you know someone you love is upset. What can you say that will allow the person to know you care but gives them the ability to